Domestic & Family Violence
Counselling online.

Confidential, trauma-informed support for adults affected by violence, abuse or coercive control, with safety, dignity and personal choice at the centre.

Support without judgement or pressure

Domestic and family violence can involve physical or sexual violence, threats, intimidation, emotional abuse, financial control, isolation, stalking, technology-facilitated abuse or coercive control. Its effects can continue during the relationship, separation and long after a person has left.

Counselling provides space to understand what has happened, reduce self-blame, strengthen coping and reconnect with your own needs and choices. You remain in control of what you discuss and what decisions you make.

Safety comes before therapy

Online counselling must not create additional risk. Before arranging telehealth, we consider whether your device, email, call history and physical location are private and safe. Alternative contact arrangements or specialist domestic violence services may be more appropriate in some situations.

Fern Up is not an emergency response service and cannot provide immediate protection, crisis accommodation or legal advice. Where needed, we can support connection with specialised services.

Trauma-informed counselling after abuse

People affected by domestic or family violence may experience anxiety, depression, trauma responses, sleep difficulties, grief, shame, loss of confidence or difficulty trusting others. Treatment is paced carefully and may focus on stabilisation, emotional regulation, boundaries, recovery and rebuilding a sense of identity.

  • Individual online counselling for adults
  • Safety and privacy considered before telehealth
  • English and Persian (Farsi)
  • Referral to specialist or urgent services where required

مشاوره آنلاین خشونت خانگی

برای بزرگسالانی که تحت تأثیر خشونت خانگی، کنترل اجباری یا سوءاستفاده در رابطه قرار گرفته‌اند، امکان بررسی مشاوره آنلاین به زبان فارسی وجود دارد. امنیت تماس و حفظ حریم خصوصی پیش از شروع بررسی می‌شود.

Please note: If you are in immediate danger, call 000. For 24-hour specialist support, contact 1800RESPECT on 1800 737 732, text 0458 737 732 or visit 1800respect.org.au.

Frequently asked questions

Is online counselling safe if I am experiencing domestic violence?

Online counselling is only considered when you can access a private device and space without increasing risk. We discuss safe contact methods, technology privacy and emergency options before proceeding.

Do I need to have left the relationship?

No. People seek support while in a relationship, while considering change, during separation or after leaving. Therapy respects your choices and does not pressure you to take a particular course of action.

Is couples therapy appropriate when there is domestic violence?

Couples therapy may be unsafe or inappropriate where there is violence, fear, coercive control or a serious power imbalance. Individual assessment and safety planning should come first.

Where can I get urgent help?

Call 000 if there is immediate danger. 1800RESPECT provides 24-hour domestic, family and sexual violence counselling in Australia on 1800 737 732, by text on 0458 737 732 and online.